by Suzi
(Smith)
I grew up in Britain and I am a regular white girl, my husband is from Bangladesh.
The only piercings I had was one in each ear and I never thought about any.
After a few years I was made redundant and my Husband suggested that we go away to Bangladesh for a couple of months to meet his extended family.
Once there he says I must wear the traditional clothing and his sister helps me even though she speaks no English we muddle through, then within a week I had lost all my clothes and was wearing traditional sari's.
His sister kept looking at me and kept tapping her nose and smiling.
When I ask my husband what she is suggesting he says she thinks I should have my nose pierced as its a family tradition.
I refuse as I have a small nose but he says I must and they are arranging the person to do and my mother in law had already got the mukuthis.
I was taken to a shopping mall into a jewellers and introduced to the man who was doing it, I didn't like him at all. my Husband and sister tried to hole me down but I struggled and it made it impossible to do.
Even though they were angry at me I managed to stop it and I thought they got the message, how wrong I was.
The next day they were all still mad at me while we had lunch then I started feeling sleepy. My husband said I had been given something to stop me fighting.
The the piercer from the Mall came in and I had my hands tied behind my backhand my Sister In Law held my head so I couldn't move.
They took out this long needle and pierced my nose which was excruciatingly painful, then the mukuthi was screwed in from the rear and they told me a wax was being applied so I can't take it out.
I saw myself and there was this one huge mukuthi In my nose and I ask to go, my husband shakes his head and says "not yet I have to have punishment for my refusal, then this man brings out another needle and marks the other side of my nose.
before I know it I have two very large mukuthis in my nose and theres nothing I can do about it.
As the weeks drift by my husband can't understand why im driving away from him, he just doesn't realise im not happy with the way I look.
After dinner one nigh I feel really tired and fall asleep, when I wake the next morning I have a large ring in my septum, he
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